Spicing Up Your Sex Life

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By , April 8, 2015 2:25 am

Even though you may be passionately in love with your partner, there will usually come a time when sex becomes a bit dull or routine. If all relationships were the same as they are in those bodice ripper novels, then couples would always be ready to enjoy a spontaneous and hot encounter every time they had sex. Reality, however, just doesn’t seem to work that way except on very rare exceptions.

Now, you probably already have some special things that you like to try with your partner. These most likely work quite well for the two of you most of the time. However, there are some times that you would just like for things to be ultra-exciting to the point that you DO feel the earth move under your feet. Believe it or not, there ARE ways to make that happen.

Find some great toys. There’s nothing like some amazing toys to add a bit of kick to your physical expressions of love. Even though most people assume that toys refer to vibrators only used by women, they couldn’t be more wrong. You should spend some time researching the wide array of toys available to everyone, especially couples. Maybe even both of you can sit down and choose some toys that look interesting.

Try out some role playing. This can be a lot of fun whether or not you decide to use costumes. It doesn’t have to be those old Nurse and Patient or Police Woman and Speeder fantasies, either. You can get creative and decide what gets you the hottest. Remember, fantasies can be ANYTHING you want. It’s not like you’re breaking any laws for real.

Get away together. This is very important. Bribe friends or relatives if you need a baby sitter. All couples need that special quality time away from everything. This is when you can really give in to all of those urges such as walking around in the nude and taking sexy showers together. Just being able to relax together can go a long way to making you feel sexier with each other.

Experiment with some new sex positions. This is one area where couples tend to be too comfortable about so they never try anything different. When you want to add a little extra zing to things in the bedroom, talk to your partner about other positions you would like to try. Better yet, SHOW him.

Try a change of scenery. When you’re finally alone for the night, lock the doors, turn off the lights and your phones. Then head into a different room to play. It’s not a rule that sex can only happen in the bedroom. You can just as easily try it out in the bathroom, kitchen counters or even the washing machine. Once you start experimenting, you’ll be amazed at the endless possibilities.

Now, that you’ve got a few ideas on how to get those home fires burning a bit hotter than you’ve ever known them to be.

The Importance Of Laughing Together

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By , April 5, 2015 9:37 pm

There are too many people in the world today that seem to be challenged in the area of having a sense of humor. That’s a very sad state of affairs because the ability to laugh at yourself as well as together is quite vital when it comes to the success of a relationship. Humor is one of those anti-aging tricks that not only keep you looking and feeling younger, but it can also keep you healthier. Many times the ability to find something funny in the majority of events in your life will keep you from developing stress related illnesses.
Knowing all of those things shows you just how much a great or terrible sense of humor can impact your relationship. People without a sense of humor tend to go through life as very morose or angry. They don’t find anything humorous unless it’s something that they see as ironic. You would also do well never to tease them or try to joke around with them. They’re going to take everything you say literally and seriously. This will most likely cause a confrontation of sorts. It’s really amazing that people like this can ever find friends let alone a lover.
Being able to laugh at yourself and with others is truly one of the best gifts you’ll ever have. There are even couples with relationships built around their ability to laugh. You may have seen the couple that posts YouTube videos detailing their practical jokes on each other. Some of these jokes are terrible, but the couple finds them funny and it seems to add a bit of spice to their relationship.
That’s not meant to say that all couples must behave like this. It’s only to say that you should be able to find humor in various areas of your life together. Learn not to be so sensitive about things. For example, one of the first things that used to be a running joke regarding newlyweds is the wife’s inability to cook. There have been various stories circulating for years about how that first marital meal was either burnt to a crisp or contained a plate filled with food of only one color. Whatever story you may have heard, there was usually a part where the wife fled the table in tears. A better way of handling such a situation might have been to use it in instigating a food fight. Imagine all of the laughter that would have come from that!
Now, think back to all of the times that you and your partner enjoyed a good, side holding, eye wiping laugh together. This may have even led to a really hot sexual encounter after you calmed down a bit. The point is that when you laugh together there’s a lot of positive energy that’s injected into your relationship. This is the positive energy that will keep a couple together through any type of situation. It’s that negative energy that will break you apart. If you or your partner doesn’t have the ability to laugh, you’re doomed to a miserable existence. Make it a point to find your sense of humor and dust it off!

Dating As A Single Mom

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By , April 3, 2015 4:32 pm

As more and more single mothers start re-entering the dating arena, there are some tricky situations to maneuver through. These can be mothers that are either divorced or those that are single because they chose to be. For these women, dating can involve some pretty large hoops to jump through unless you’ve got live in help or a relative that just loves to babysit your kids for you. Actually, babysitting is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to coordinating all of the things that need to be taken care of before you can enjoy a night out on the town with a date.
However, in spite of all the preparation for a date, single women continue to have a very successful social life that also includes dating.

The first thing to remember is that any man who may be around your children at any point in time is someone that you need to be very sure about. You need to be certain that he’s safe and that he doesn’t have any sort of criminal history. It’s also a good idea to find out how he feels about kids before you start dating him. All of these things are very important and should be thoroughly checked into before ever going out on that first date. The last thing you want is to bring someone into your life and that of your children who has a less than stellar background.

A problem that many single moms face when dating is dealing with a child that doesn’t want to share their mom with someone new. Now, obviously, you don’t want to upset your child that may already be dealing with the fallout from a divorce or death of a father. However, you do need to set some clear boundaries. It’s important for your child to understand that you’re more than just a mom and that you deserve to have some privacy of your own to get out and have some adult fun. You need to explain that you’ll always be there for them, but that there’s also a part of your life that belongs only to you. If all else fails and these problems escalate, you probably want to consider having your child speak with a counselor.

Last, but not least, if it begins to look as if a certain relationship may be heading down a path to something more permanent, start incorporating your child into your dating life. Once you feel that someone may become a serious part of your life, he needs to spend some time with your child so that they can become better acquainted. This needs to be done well ahead of time before making any such serious decisions as moving in together or getting married. If your child and your man get along well, the transition will be so much easier because they will have had time to get to know one another and won’t be strangers.

As you can see, it’s much simpler to adjust to dating life as a single mom than you may have ever thought it would be.

Weddings On A Shoe String Budget

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By , April 1, 2015 11:15 am

Weddings are a huge money making business these days. It’s become almost impossible to have the wedding of your dreams unless you’re from one of the wealthiest families in the world, a celebrity or royalty. Most ordinary people either have to save for a very long time or they have to take out a loan. However, even if you’re on the lower end of the financial totem pole, there’s a way to have a very nice wedding in an affordable fashion.
These could actually be called DIY weddings because you’ll be doing most of the work yourself. Start with the size of the wedding. You may want to limit the number of guests that you invite due to various other aspects of the wedding. Once you and your fiance agree on a number, stick to it. Too many people get caught up in the moment and spontaneously invite people. Just remember that this is a special day you’ll want to spend with those people that you feel closest to. It’s not a time to repay social obligations.
Decide on your location. This can be totally free if you happen to have a nice back yard or a home with enough space to hold the wedding. If you don’t have either of these things, personally, a relative or good friend may allow you to hold your wedding at their home. There are many community parks where you can gather to have the wedding itself and go to another location for the reception. Just look around to see what’s available.
Invitations can be made on your computer and printed out. The only thing you’ll need to pay for are paper, envelopes, printer ink, and postage. This is a lot simpler than it may seem, especially with the numerous choices in colored and textured paper that you can buy. You get to use your imagination and design your own invitations.
The reception can be as cheap as it needs to be. Many couples are now going the route of wedding cupcakes rather than an elaborate several tiered cake. In fact, you and friends can make these cupcakes yourself. There will be only a one layer cake needed as the topper and you can freeze this one to have on your first wedding anniversary. The cupcakes will be for everyone to eat and enjoy. If you want to have other things to eat, this is also something you and your friends can put together. Keep it simple with such things as finger sandwiches, salad, and anything that’s inexpensive, tasty and easy to put together.
Your dress may be one of your biggest expenses but it doesn’t have to break the bank. Look around in high end thrift stores and discount stores. Many times you can find an appropriate dress that you’ll love for just a fraction of the price of a brand new gown. Another option is to make your dress or have a talented friend make it. This is a cost saving but beautiful solution.
Flowers can be as simple as freshly cut ones from a garden. You can also buy pretty bouquets in grocery stores on the day of the wedding. They’ll look fresh and lovely.
As you can see, there are many ways to cut the costs of a lovely wedding. Once you get started, you’ll probably find more on your own.

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