Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Together

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By , August 31, 2015 8:05 pm

In this day and age of technology, long distance relationships are a lot easier to maintain than they used to be many years ago. The world has moved beyond the simplicity of telephones into the era of computers and the Internet. In fact, that’s how many couples actually meet these days. It’s little wonder that there are more long distance relationships than ever before. The issue then becomes how to maintain a relationship when the couple is hundreds or even thousands of miles apart from each other. If you’re in a relationship of this type, you may be relieved to know that it can be successful as long as you follow a few rules.
When issues pop up from time to time, as they may do, both partners need to work together in resolving them. In this way, even if you’re separated by many miles, you must make an extra effort to talk over any problems that the two of you may have. Don’t wait for your partner to contact you even if you don’t feel that you’re to blame for the problem. Instead, be the first one to extend an olive branch and talk things out.
Jealousy and temptations are always a part of long distance relationships for obvious reasons. You both worry about whether or not either, or both, of you are using other people to fulfill certain needs. Instead of worrying about this, why not talk about how to creatively fulfill the needs of each other without going outside of the relationship. After all, there are such things as cell phones and web cams that you can certainly use to your advantage when it comes to playtime.
Something that’s very reassuring in long distance relationships is talking about plans for the future. These future plans should involve the two of you as a couple. This is the sort of conversation that will produce warm fuzzy feelings within both of you because it gives you something to look forward to, which, in turn, will go a long way to solidifying your relationship even more.
All couples have issues from time to time. Admittedly, it’s easier to talk about these things in person, but if you’re in a long distance relationship, that’s not going to happen. That’s why you must tackle any problem that may be lifting its’ ugly head before it turns into a true monster that will kill your relationship before you know it. Talk it out by phone or web cam. The important thing is to not let it sit and grow until there’s nothing that can be done about it.
Long distance relationships can be difficult at times. But you simply have to keep in mind that it’s not going to be this way forever, and do everything you can to keep things going until the time when the two of you can actually be a couple sharing an in person relationship. By then, you’ll have figured out how to keep your relationship together no matter what.

Signs That Hes Not Worth A Second Date

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By , August 29, 2015 3:57 pm

When you go on a date with a new guy, you’re always taking a bit of a risk that he’s not a serial killer or rapist at the worst, or just dull and boring at the least. Dates can go wrong for a lot of different reasons. Maybe he picks his nose or has a braying laugh. There can be other reasons such as there’s no chemistry between you.

Sometimes, though, it’s not quite so easy to tell if you’ve snagged a loser or not. It may be that he’s perfectly nice and, yes, there’s a bit of chemistry. You just don’t quite know whether or not it’s something you want to pursue. In these situations, there are some ways to tell if he’s worth a second date or not. Look for the following signs that he’s someone you just pass by:

He’s a bad tipper: This is often the sign of a selfish person. He doesn’t need to tip outrageously, but if it’s less than 15 percent, he’s probably cheap in other ways, too.

His parents are “mommy” and “daddy” to him: This might just be a Southern thing, but an adult man calling his parents by these little boy names is just weird.

He’s disrespectful regarding his exes: All people have an ex somewhere in their past that hurt them. There’s also baggage left from the old relationships. The thing is that smart guys learn from these relationships and then they move on. A guy that doesn’t learn will be nasty about his exes and possibly use up valuable conversation time with YOU dissing THEM.

He’s rude to servers: A man that’s rude to waiters or retail staff will be rude to you, too, sooner or later.

He’ not a reader: If he’s someone that never reads anything other than the sports section of the newspaper or comic books, he’s probably not intellectually well read. This may or may not be ok with you.
He’s a smoker: This tells you that he doesn’t care a lot about his health. On top of that, his breath probably smells like an ashtray.
He never works out: This might not be that big of a deal to all women but if you’re a woman that takes care of herself, you’ll want to date someone that also leads a healthy lifestyle.

He makes rude remarks about other women: Men that laugh about other women’s less than flattering features can’t possibly respect women on a whole. So if you’re out with someone that jokes about someone’s “fat ass” or “sagging tits,” you probably don’t want to see him again.
He doesn’t care about the news: Men that don’t care about the news or what’s happening in the world aren’t a very aware people.

He’s not well-traveled and doesn’t want to be: This man is probably never going anywhere in life because he doesn’t have any desire to ever leave Tiny Town, Anywhere USA. Unless you’re a real homebody, too, this is a man that will bore you to death.
These are just a few of the red flags that you can keep an eye out for when you start dating a new guy. If you spot one or all of these, you might want to keep looking.

How To Know That Hes Truly In Love With You

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By , August 27, 2015 10:05 am

Wouldn’t relationships be so much simpler if you could indulge in just a bit of mind reading when it comes to your man? This is how you could see for sure how he feels about you. Of course, in some cases, it might not be the best idea to know without a doubt what he’s thinking about you and your relationship. Either way, it might be helpful if your dates came with a Magic 8 Ball or Crystal Ball so that you could get a little help to see what they’re thinking.
Sometimes, you just have to make guesses at what your man is thinking. This can be really dicey, especially at the very beginning of the relationship. It’s a time when you’re starting to get to know each other and there are many questions during this stage of a relationship. There ARE some ways you can tell how he’s feeling about you without the use of the supernatural. It’s just a matter of decoding what he says and does. They include:
He smiles at you a lot and not only when he’s trying to get you into bed.
He likes talking to you for a very long time. Men don’t typically like to talk unless they’ve found someone that they really care for.
He likes cuddling with you. When guys don’t love a girl, he’ll refuse to cuddle. On the other hand, when he likes cuddling with you that means something.
He sincerely cares for you. He’s interested in knowing everything about you. He asks about your likes and dislikes, your favorite movies, favorite music, favorite food and things that make you laugh.
He’s always going that extra mile to make you happy.
The quirks you have that you think are irritating, he finds awesome. So that means that if you know it’s weird that you can’t ever run out of hand soap or you’re completely addicted to Diet Dr. Pepper, he doesn’t have an issue with that. In fact, he finds it kind of endearing and thinks you’re perfect the way you are.
The chemistry between you is explosive. You think alike and the heat you generate when you’re with each other is pretty combustible.
He loves the time you two spend together. He doesn’t care what you’re doing as long as you’re doing it together.
He gives you what you want even if both of you want your way and it’s totally different. In short, he’s willing to compromise in order to make you happy.
He starts talking to you about plans for the future he wants to have with you.
These are all pretty clear indicators that you’ve landed a keeper and that he feels the same way about you. He understands what he’s got with you and he wants to make sure that he doesn’t blow it. Pay close attention to these signs and you’ll know just how he feels about you. These signs don’t lie and you can depend on them to accurately measure what your guy thinks of you.

Are You In Love Or Obsessed

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By , August 25, 2015 5:34 am

It should be obvious that there are basic differences between being in love or just obsessed. Sadly, that’s not always the case. Many people find themselves in relationships that they feel are loving when, in reality, it’s an unhealthy obsession. Even when these people are faced with the facts, they often refuse to admit that they’re more obsessed than in love. In fact, you may be one of those women who is obsessed than in love. So if you haven’t gone completely round the bend, following are some signs that you may be obsessed rather than in love:
You flake on responsibilities because of a chance that you’ll have of running into the object of your obsession. This includes missing work, school or other important appointments because he said he MIGHT call you, or there’s the off chance that if you stay in a certain location long enough, he’ll come in. If you’re blowing off commitments just on the chance that you’ll run into this guy, you should consider yourself to be in serious trouble. When you miss commitments just because of your obsession, you’re only going to be sorry later in life when you don’t even remember this guy’s name.

You miss out on things that you love doing just so that you can be available in case the guy you’re obsessed with decides he has time to call you or wants to see you. What you’re actually doing is putting your life on hold for another person. Now, this may be fine if you’re in a serious relationship or are married, but when this person has done nothing to show you that you mean much to him, it makes no sense for you to rearrange your life for him. You’re only missing out on a lot of fun by doing so.
Your friendships are taking a back seat to your obsession. When you’re obsessed with a guy you’re dating or one that you WANT to date, you’ll tend to ignore your friends in favor of being available for this guy even when he hasn’t called or made plans with you. Eventually, you’ll start driving your friends away from you because they understand that you don’t care much about them now.
If you notice any of these signs within yourself, please take note how far you’ve fallen down the Rabbit Hole. None of these things are even remotely normal. You’re not meant to stop living your life just in CASE some guy decides to give you a call or suddenly shows up to take you to dinner. If it’s necessary for you to always be available on the off chance that he’ll call or come by, then it’s imperative that you get some help in overcoming your obsession. This is something that could ruin your entire life if you allow it. That’s why you need to do everything possible to move past this obsession and involve yourself in a healthy relationship with someone that wants to be with you.

Accept Him As He Is

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By , August 23, 2015 1:00 am

One of the worst things you can do is hook up with someone and then set about trying to change him. This usually comes about because you were attracted to certain parts of a guy such as his looks or his sense of humor or intelligence. Anything that’s not so appealing to you are things that you figure you can take care of once you’ve snagged him, and that’s something that cannot be further from the truth.
When you take on someone to have relationship with, you take him as he is. There’s really no other choice in the matter because any changing that you attempt to do with him is just going to push him away from you. Besides, when you’re looking for someone to love, you most likely don’t go around picking someone out because he looks good. Starting with a shell is never a good idea. You find someone that you’re drawn to for various reasons and not just because he’s hot.
In fact, the old adage of not judging a book by its cover also applies when choosing the men you like. He may look awesome on the outside but have a purely black soul on the inside. Sadly, it’s not unusual for beauty and evil to reside in the same body. So while he may have the face of an angel, that doesn’t mean he has the heart of one.
On the other hand, when you meet someone that draws your attention, take mental notes of the things you like about him. If the list is long enough, you may want to pursue this a bit. The one thing you do not want to do is go into things thinking that the few things you may not like about the guy are things that you can fix. If you’re attracted to him as he is, you’re going to have to accept the rest of him, too.
Also, consider that you’re not so perfect, either. There may be things about you that men would love to change but they don’t try because the rest of you is rather endearing. Actually, it is women that tend to try to change men more so than the other way around. Men aren’t that interested in swapping out things on their women. The exceptions would be male agents in charge of models or actresses, and then the changes are usually superficial ones.
The point is that when you meet someone that you like, take him at face value. Don’t look at him and think instantly of all the ways that you can mold him into your perfect man. It rarely ever works out. On top of that, while you may be able to accomplish the changes you want, it’s quite possible that you’ll be the only happy one in the relationship. When men are forced to change against their will, they’re usually not very happy, and if you’re content with being happy no matter what it takes from your partner, then you’re a rather self-centered individual that needs to do some changing as well.

Learn To Win Ex Back Easy Stystem For Scoring Back Your Ex

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By , August 20, 2015 7:23 pm

Are you dying to learn to win ex back following a breakup? Both breakup and divorce can cause a great deal of anger and pain, yet we often find a way to rekindle things. The feeling of wanting to win ex back is a strong one, and it is a common one.

It is perfectly normal for us to want to rekindle things with a lost love, even if the relationship fell apart because of serious problems or differences. So regardless of what situation is in place, how can you learn to win ex back?

There are two types of people who can help you learn from your experience and your endeavor to win ex back. These people are the ones who have successfully one their lovers back, as well as paid specialists and love consultants.

Consulting either of these groups will give you some solid advice on what will make it possible to win ex back. Just because you have had a bad break up, that does not mean that you cannot find a way to make things work again.

It is actually much easier to speak to real people who have been there and done that, than to a pay a specialist to give you canned information about making relationships work. Instead, it would be good for you to talk to people who have been there and survived the process of learning to win ex back.

If you are serious about learning how to win ex back, find people who have already walked the beaten path and solicit them for their advice. They probably have a thing or two to say to you about how to make this process easier.

Studies as well as research have been done about reconciliation success stories. It appears that there are a number of common elements between many of these success stories. In other words, you can learn a lot from people who have already mastered the art of learning to win ex back.

What can you learn when you speak to someone who has already learned to win ex back? You can learn what motivated them to see if your intentions are pure, you can learn what they did to win ex back and you can learn some techniques to employ for making your endeavor successful as well.

Armed with the right information, you too can learn how to win ex back. It really is not a difficult process, but it takes some knowledge and understanding of the process in order to be successful. Rushing in too quickly can be detrimental to the process. If you think through your actions when working to win ex back, you will have much greater successes as a result.

Do you know someone who has gotten back with their ex? Find out what they recommend to win ex back.

How Dumb Does Porn Make Men

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By , August 18, 2015 2:29 pm

There’s been an ongoing debate over the evils and benefits of pornography, otherwise known as simply porn. Of course, you’ll be able to find people all over the place that will state just how evil porn is and that it should be abolished. Most of these people have some sort of religious affiliation and that’s why they proclaim to feel as they do. However, a high percentage of this group of people are secretly viewing porn while publically claiming that it’s wrong.
The people claiming that it should be banned have some decent reasons for feeling this way. They feel that porn causes people to do things that they wouldn’t have done otherwise. That may be true up to a point. However, it should also be noted that these people most likely had a predilection of doing those things anyway. The porn just kind of pushed a button for them.
Porn doesn’t change a person. It can enhance certain ideas or leanings, but it doesn’t change the basic personality of anyone. In fact, it can even help keep the more dangerous fetishists off the street and at home in front of the computer or television screen. It’s certainly something to consider.
Now, the one thing about porn that can actually be damaging is when an inexperienced man takes what he sees in the movie as the gospel in how you should treat women sexually. The one thing you should never, ever do when you’re just starting to be sexually active is to practice things that you see in porn movies. Granted, some of these moves can spice up your sex life if you’re already part of a couple because you know what makes sense and what’s simply stupid. An experienced person won’t necessarily realize this.
It’s for this very reason that many men “get stupid” from watching porn. A lot of them then go out into the world and try to put into action what they witnessed on a really weird porn video. As porn has targeted primarily men, there’s little wonder that women are mostly exploited in these movies. So men watch these movies and believe that all women love having their hair pulled, being pushed to their knees and having various things forced into their mouths and other odd areas of the body. That could be the reason that they’re so shocked when they try these things and women not only do not like them, but they may actually retaliate physically, believing themselves to be in danger.
No, porn isn’t necessarily a bad thing. In fact, it can be exciting and arousing for couples when they use it the right way. However, if you’re a sexually inexperienced guy, don’t take everything you see in porn to be literal. That’s a very bad mistake and it makes you look insensitive, boorish, and stupid to a woman that you probably want very much to impress.
If you really want to know what sort of things women like, try watching the porn that’s made by and for women. It will teach you a lot. However, remember that he one woman you’re with can teach you volumes more than a hundred porn movies.

Why Avoid Online Dating

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By , August 16, 2015 9:27 am

With dating being such an exercise in stress these days, there are more reasons than ever to jump online and sign up with a few of the reputable online dating websites. Yes, you’ll probably tell yourself anything to keep from having to take this step. You think that you’re too busy, or you just don’t want your information so public, or you would just rather meet someone naturally rather than “force” it. Maybe you’ve already given it a quick shot and it just didn’t work out for you.
Ok, now that you’ve come up with all of the excuses in the world to not do this, it’s time to make a list of some great reasons that you should do it. First of all, if you’re really so busy that you can’t find the time to set up a dating profile, then you probably need to either just not worry about dating at all, or maybe drop some of your commitments. Seriously, when you’re too busy to date or have a social life, then you need to cut back on some things. Remember that little adage that starts out with “All work and no play?” It’s sure to make you a dull person and no one wants to date dull people.
As for wanting to meet someone “naturally,” everyone would love it if that were to happen. The problem with that is this is just not something that happens all the time these days. Most people meet their dating partners through mutual friends or just bouncing around online in various chat rooms and communities. Granted, there are those couples that meet at church, at bars or clubs, at the post office, the Laundromat, the supermarket, or anywhere else where people may go on a day to day basis. It’s just that not everyone you meet in those ways will work out.
The thing about online dating websites is that they’re usually set up so that people with things in common can easily find each other as well as communicate. If you’re someone that doesn’t want to put all of your information online, simply be selective about what you decide to put into your dating profile. No one has stated that you must put absolutely everything out there for just anyone to read. All you need to do is build your profile in a way that you’ll only attract the type of potential dates that will interest you.
These days, there are so many more reasons to look into online dating websites than there are to not do it. If you have tried it before and it just wasn’t all that successful, don’t let that stop you. Get some advice from friends that have enjoyed some great experiences with it. They’ll probably be quite happy to assist you in building just the right profile so that only the types of people that you would find fascinating will be drawn to contact you. Then, you can go from there regarding whether or not you’ll reply, ignore the contact or eventually set up a date. It really is just that easy!

You Can Get Ex Boyfriend Back In Five Steps

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By , August 14, 2015 4:18 am

Sometimes breakup and divorce can be difficult, but does not preclude you from learning to get ex boyfriend back when you are ready to try again.

If you harbor the secret home that your lover will be won back some day, know that this is perfectly normal to think. If you love him, then there is nothing wrong with wanting to get ex boyfriend back after a particularly painful split. How will you get your ex back following such a split? Here are five steps that address the need to get ex boyfriend back.

1 – When you want to get ex boyfriend back, know that circumstances don’t matter. If you always perceive that the circumstances matter, then you will never get past your breakup. Forget the circumstances of the past if you want to restore the lost relationship. Things like cheating or lying are in the past. Move past them or you will never be able to get ex boyfriend back. He is not going to be interested in rekindling old drama!

2 – When you want to get ex boyfriend back, know that only one act is necessary. You can find success by putting things into motion with your ex boyfriend even if he does not seem interested. It may be less straightforward but still more than possible to achieve. It usually only takes a single act in order to rekindle the feelings of love in your ex. If you want to get ex boyfriend back, plan your next move and execute it flawlessly.

3 – When you want to get ex boyfriend back, you must learn to realize the problem. Relationships do not break down over night, so realizing the problem is vital to reconciling. If you do not accept the problems of the past, then you will never be able to move past them. This is truly vital in learning to get ex boyfriend back.

4 – When you want to get ex boyfriend back, you must learn to change yourself based on perception. Break up events happen when one or more partners are not satisfied in the relationship. Yourself or your perceptions may have to change to rekindle the relationship. Strong relationships that are on equal footing mean accepting one another.

You must accept the other person despite their faults. Accept your ex boyfriend despite his little flaws and love him without demanding that he change for the greatest results. Changing your perceptions or changing yourself may be the key to rekindling a lost love that you have not given up on.

5 – When you want to get ex boyfriend back, you must learn how to take small baby steps. Do not rush into anything when attempting to get ex boyfriend back. He will not appreciate the pushiness and the wrong result may occur. Take small steps and treat the relationship as one that is brand new in order to best get ex boyfriend back.

Staying You In Relationships

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By , August 11, 2015 11:46 pm

A pitfall that many women fall into when they start dating a new guy is that they get so caught up in the excitement and newness of everything that you can easily lose yourself in the relationship. That’s the last thing that you want to do. This is true for many reasons, but one of the biggest ones is that losing yourself takes away from your inner core.
You first start noticing that all of your time is taken up with this new guy. There’s never any time for you to do something that you enjoy. It doesn’t matter, though, because you like spending all of that time with him. You’ve crossed a line and now everything is “our” this and “we” that without ever having an “I” or “me” moment again.
To keep you from losing yourself within this relationship there are some things that will keep you intact while also allowing you to love your new relationship. The first one of these things is to keep your old and current friendships going. While they might understand that you want to devote lots of time to nurturing this new relationship, if you keep blowing them off, they’ll eventually write you off. That’s not something you want to happen.
Don’t stop taking part in traditions. If you’ve been having a Girl’s Night Out once a week, there’s no need to stop participating in that because you’ve got a new love interest. Remember that your friends are very important. They’ve been there before this new guy and will be there after him.
Keep up with your hobbies. It doesn’t matter whether the new guy likes them or not. Your hobbies are for you. He probably likes things that you don’t actually get into. That’s something that makes you an individual and keeps you being who you are.
When your new love interest wants to spend some time with his friends, kiss him and send him off for an evening fun. Don’t whine about him wanting some “me” time. Instead, use that time to have some “me” time of your own. It will do both of you a lot of good. Besides, how can you miss each other if you’re never apart?
Something that’s really important is for you to meet his friends. They’ll tell you everything you need to know about this guy that he won’t tell you himself. You’ll find out all of his dirty little secrets and bad habits. The more time you spend around them the hotter they’ll think you are, which will keep you remembering just how desirable you are.
One last thing is to resist the urge to friend him on Facebook or follow him on Twitter. You don’t really want all of those hourly updates. Sometimes it’s better to not know certain things about your love. It can take away some of the mystique that your relationship has in the beginning. Yes, you’ll eventually have to find out all about his bathroom habits, but why do it before you absolutely have to? That goes both ways!

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