Guys Dating – Tips For A Better Experience

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By , June 29, 2020 3:37 pm

So if you are a guy and want to go out dating, you are probably looking for some tips and tricks for guys dating. Well, there are several things you can do to improve your dating experience when going out on dates with girls. These include being relaxed, setting clear expectations, and staying confident and assertive.

One of the best things you can do when looking to go out on dates is to be relaxed. If you are relaxed, then your potential partner is going to be relaxed. And if your partner is relaxed, then they are going to be more willing to do more activities with you and be more open to have conversation with you. There are several ways to relax yourself, one of which is working out in the morning time. If you get up early enough before work or school, you can get in a good enough workout for thirty to forty five minutes and then by the time you’re showered up and have eaten breakfast, you are well on your way to being relaxed for the day. Another way to be relaxed is to stop eating junk food and start eating green and healthy foods. This will give you more energy and also calm you down. Eating healthy foods also reduces the massive sugar intake people eat during the day which sometimes gives them the nervous jitters.

Another great tip for guys dating is to set clear expectations as to what you want from the experience. Ask yourself: why are you going on a date? Why do you want to date in the first place? Then make sure you let your partner know why you are doing that. Not only is this important enough to make you feel more relaxed about the time you spend with your partner, but it is also important for her to feel more comfortable about your intentions. When a woman understands your intentions up front, then she will be more willing to go on a date with you. She will also be willing to be more open and honest with you during the date.

And finally, one of the most important things for guys dating is to stay confident and assertive. This is different from passive or aggressive. Being aggressive is too brash and bully like, and being too passive is a turn off for girls, but being assertive is just right in the middle. Women love confident men who know what they want. Know what you want in your expectations, stay relaxed, and you will have a great experience.

Anything For Her

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By , June 29, 2020 12:54 pm

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Looking for that perfect gift for the lady in your life? If you are out of ideas and can’t think of anything to buy, this article will help you find something just for her.

Fortunately, women have the reputation of being easier to shop for than men. Jewelry is always welcome. You can find unique presents at an antique shop, and vintage jewelry is extremely fashionable. Consider buying her an Italian charm bracelet, the newest fad in jewelry. Italian charm bracelets do not …

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Looking for that perfect gift for the lady in your life? If you are out of ideas and can’t think of anything to buy, this article will help you find something just for her.

Fortunately, women have the reputation of being easier to shop for than men. Jewelry is always welcome. You can find unique presents at an antique shop, and vintage jewelry is extremely fashionable. Consider buying her an Italian charm bracelet, the newest fad in jewelry. Italian charm bracelets do not resemble the dangling charm bracelets popular in the 1950s and 60s. These sleek bracelets are covered by snap-on segments which can feature a wide variety of patterns and designs. Some are studded with gems, others are covered by miniature enamel paintings, and they come in all metals from stainless steel to 18K gold to fit all budgets.

For serious relationships, diamonds are always appropriate, and a small set of 1/4 carat earrings only costs a few hundred dollars, while its sparkle will accent any outfit. If you don’t know how to judge the quality of diamonds (there are short online courses for beginners) stick to a reputable local jeweler so you will be sure to get a high-quality item. Not all diamonds are created equal, as some are grey or yellow and included with particles that detract from their appearance and value. Learn about the four C’s before buying diamonds to make sure you get a good bargain.

Online auction sites are good places to pick up jewelry and other gifts. Ebay is the most popular venue, but there are smaller sites as well where you can pick up a bargain.

If the lady you are buying for has a hobby or a collection, try to find something that adds to it. For instance, a doll collector would love to have a limited-edition Barbie. Birdwatchers will enjoy a full-day outing, and perhaps a picnic, near a bird sanctuary. Scrapbook owners can always use small mementos or photos of special occasions. If your lady likes books, find a signed or limited edition.

Many women appreciate art, so look for an original piece that suits her decor. She will think of you whenever she sees it.

If you know her size and taste, buy her some attractive article of clothing. It doesn’t have to be something as intimate as lingerie, as long as you avoid completely utilitarian items such as socks (that vile old Christmas standard). Try a handknit sweater or some soft lined gloves for cold winter days.

And don’t forget the other love of her life — her pet. People who own pets consider them part of the family, and always appreciate gifts for them. Try a personalized or rhinestone-studded collar for the dog, or some gourmet cat food for her feline. Dog grooming certificates make a great gift and save time spent on cleaning, brushing, and clipping the nails of pets. If there is a cat or dog show in town, get some tickets for both of you.

If you can cook, make her a romantic dinner complete with wine and candles. Everyone loves to be spoiled and waited on. Baskets of luxury foods and snacks are gifts suitable for everyone.

Last but not least, don’t forget flowers! A dozen roses are always romantic, and a tropical bouquet will brighten her home for days. Or buy an attractive potted plant, which lasts longer.

Whatever you do, make sure your gift shows some thought and consideration of her tastes. If possible, don’t buy a generic gift suitable for anyone. After all, it’s the thought that counts, and you want to demonstrate that you feel she is special and worth some extra effort.

Are You Made For Each other

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By , June 26, 2020 4:28 pm

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The couple was walking on the sidewalk. They looked to be totally absorbed with each other.

The couple was walking on the sidewalk. They looked to be totally absorbed with each other. They were not speaking to each other, but a glance at them could tell that they were in deep love and were made for each other. What is this mystical quality of being made for each other? What qualities does this kind of relationship have? Are all the choices same? Or as we say in science, opposites attract. So the choices are totally different? Will a couple having different choices in every aspect love each other or fight over the choices? We can say that at least most of the choices should be very common. If I say that my partner and I are made for each other, what I must mean is this – he/she is the right person for me. There is no other person in the world other than him/her who can make a better couple with me. We are happiest being together and our happiness comes from our relationship.

Are choices the only factor that matter in our life? Is it enough if my eating habits, my dressing choices, my color preferences, my weather preferences and all my other likings are same as my partner, we are made for each other? Is that all to the relationship supposed to be made for each other? There must be something more? What can be that? Let us find out.

Love for each other, a deep longing for others body, heart and words and a feeling of deep satisfaction that is derived when the couple is together. The couple has only one desire- to share everything, every thought, and every emotion. The main goal in life – make and keep the partner happy and feel happy in his/her happiness. Whenever we look at a mother with her child, we never say that they are made for each other, but they share a bond that is very deep. If a couple can somehow share that kind of bond, it can be called ‘made for each other.’

Creating Amazingly Effective and Efficient Relationships

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By , June 23, 2020 7:25 pm

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Effective relationships can be worth their weight in gold, read this article to see why.

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Relationships of all kinds are often perceived as very delicate things, that require extra effort to maintain. However, a relationship can also be something that can provide security and can also be long lasting despite many trials.

Building an effective and lasting relationships is a necessity for several reasons. For example in a group or organization, the well being of the people depends on how efficient and effective that group or organization works.

The group or organization is also dependent on how the members work well with the management.

An ineffective group or organization can really be very frustrating. An effective group or organization can also ask so much on their members, that sometimes the members would be having no life outside the walls of the area where they work or sacrifice the other aspects of their life just to meet deadlines. For an organization or group with this kind of scenario, relationships can be stressed or suffer from breakdown.

People or other entities who depend on these groups or organization also suffer.

Society is defined as a web of relationships, which requires all parties to work and contribute their share in order to achieve a common goal. Having a relationship that is good, where cooperation and respect are manifested, can make society work better. In this way each member works for the good of the whole and towards achieving a common goal. This can only be attained with effective and efficient relationships.

Understanding the other parties’ feeling and position creates an effective and efficient relationship. The easiest method to understand what is important to another party is to ask them what they want and listen to what they have to say. When the other party realizes this, they would feel the importance given to them

Effective and efficient relationships require parties to openly express their feelings and positions on all matters pertinent on the relationship. Assuming that the other party understands our needs and give us when we need it without asking for it is not a good practice.

Respect is the key to relationship. In order to create a more effective relationship, parties should treat each other with respect. We can show respect just by listening to the other party and by trying sincerely to understand how they function. You can also show respect to other parties by confirming that they are doing everything they can.

The opposite of respect is quick forming of judgements based on unfounded facts and prejudice.

Respect is the very foundation for a great relationship. This also means respecting yourself and respecting others.

Another key area in forming an effective relationship is to tackle differences of the other party directly. Differences between parties or people are quite interesting. For example in a conversation where each party listens to the other party, you may observe that each is having two different perspectives.

Work towards a win-win solution for both parties.

This can be done when at least one party acknowledges that the relationship is important. That party would then exert more time, effort and energy to understand the other party’s needs and deal with it to get it out of the way. Should they fail, it is comforting for that party to know that they tried.

Effectively listening and no pre-judging. This is important if parties are to understand each other.

Informal discussions are conducive for parties. They bring out issues and concerns comfortably. They also feel more relaxed making them think more clearly.

Developing an atmosphere where the other party can express their feelings when they need to.

When parties fail to express whatever is on their mind or their feelings, it can get in the way of building an effective relationship.

Parties should be aware that certain things exist naturally but should be controlled in any dealings in any relationship. Human nature is one. Some of these things found in a relationship also include a history of stereotyping or mistrust, blaming the other person or party for a strained relationship, excluding the other party’s feelings when focusing on a task, no clear and defined objectives, roles and expectations of each party in a relationship is also unclear.

Relationships are important to anyone, addressing issues and problems right away is a must to further improve the relationship. As they say ‘No man (or woman) is an Island’.

Love Relationship Advice

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By , June 23, 2020 3:12 am

There are a number of ways to increase the love in your relationship. This love relationship advice will give you a snapshot on how to do just that. In addition to knowing how to show love to your partner more effectively, it is also good to know what to do when it doesn’t seem like the other person is showing love to you. Also, take note of some ways to accept love from your partner and check out some exciting things you both can do in order to increase the love and excitement in your life.

There are several ways to show love more effectively, including giving words of encouragement, spending quality time with your partner, giving gifts, doing things for your partner, and giving them hugs and kisses. When doing things for your partner, it doesn’t have to be something out of this world, but instead something with sentiment and something that shows you care. For example, you can wash the dishes, or feed the pups before you go to work. Or perhaps you can get her that showing machine she always wanted. No matter what you do, put some thought into it and make it meaningful to your partner.

Spending quality time with your partner is important, and it doesn’t take spending a lot of money either. You both can take a walk at the park or even at the beach. Find some boardgames you both like to play like Scrabble or Uno. Go to the store and find a new game you both would like to try out. Challenge yourselves to a rock climbing or hiking trip, or perhaps go kayaking at a nearby lake. Even working on a project you both are passionate about can be a great bonding experience as well.

When your partner doesn’t seem to show you love, it might not be what you think. Many times, they are showing you they love you, just not in the way you might imagine. Everyone has their own way of showing love. Find out your partner’s way of showing love and affection. This is one of the best pieces of love relationship advice. Sometimes, all it takes is to ask them, “What kinds of things do you do to show me you love me?” Sometimes, just because someone doesn’t say “I love you” every single hour, doesn’t mean they don’t love you. Sometimes their actions will speak just as loud, if not louder. Check it out and observe. You might learn some things about your partner you’ve never known before.

A Priceless Birthday Gift

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By , June 20, 2020 9:56 pm

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Memories are more valuable than money!!

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Kelly was a very wealthy Hollywood actress, who was used to a posh lifestyle. She lived in a multimillion dollar home in Beverly Hills. She had all sorts of people she paid to do things for her, such as her personal chef, her aerobics trainer, her gardener, her maid and her masseuse. She spared no expense to take care of her wants and needs.

Kelly was a great actress and had been nominated several times for Golden Globes and Academy Awards. She seemed to have everything she wanted.

In spite of losing her mother at a very young age, she had a very loving father and sister. Her Dad ensured that both of his girls got a great education. He also was very supportive of their career moves. Kelly had always wanted to be an actress. Her sister, Sarah, had always wanted to be a scientist.

Sarah drove from where she worked, at Jet Propulsion Laboratory, to her sister’s home.

It was Kelly’s birthday and she invited dozens of celebrities, ranging from actors to musicians. Each guest took turns giving Kelly her extravagant gifts, such as gold-plated picture frames, modern expensive artwork and items from Hong Kong. It was time for Sarah, her sister, to give Kelly her birthday present. She handed Kelly a brand new photo album. Kelly said jokingly, “A photo album, Sarah? Do you know how many photo albums I have? I don’t have enough pictures to fill all my photo albums.?
Sarah knew her sister’s sarcastic humor and took the comment in stride. She finally said, “Open the album, sister.?”But-?”OPEN the album, Kelly,?Sarah said with conviction.

Kelly opened the photo album. There were many photos of an attractive woman and a handsome man in their mid-thirties next to two girls. Both girls appeared to be less than ten years old.

Kelly’s mouth slowly started to open rather widely as if she had been transformed on the spot. She began to weep as tears of love ran down her face. She stared at the first page of pictures for several minutes. She finally said softly, “It’s Mom.?She couldn’t say anything more for another few minutes as she turned the page. The room was silent. The next page contained pictures of her mother, father, Sarah and her at the Grand Canyon. “Our last trip together,?Kelly said even more softly. She couldn’t hold back the running tears, which were now like Niagara Falls. The people in the room started to cry as well. Most of them knew that Kelly lost her mother at a very young age.

“Where did you get these??Kelly asked Sarah. “These are absolutely priceless.?”Dad found them in the attic. I had the same reaction as you. I had a photoshop restore many of the pictures and make several copies. I had to make an album for you and me. It’s the least I could do for Mom,?exclaimed Sarah. “Do you remember the hike along the Colorado River??Kelly asked Sarah. “She was so mad when we jumped in the river.?Both sisters hugged each other. Sarah was now crying as much as Kelly. Both sisters?tears were tears of embrace and loyalty. They both adored one another.

After about an hour of reminiscing with each other and the guests who surrounded them, Kelly said, “Sarah, this is the greatest birthday present anyone could ever give me. Thank you.?

Discerning The Loving Heart

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By , June 18, 2020 12:41 am

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How often have you had the experience of connecting with someone ?a friend or a potential partner ?who turns out to be an uncaring person? At first you think this is a really good person, and then down the line you discover that the person is self-centered, narcissistic, angry and uncaring. You wonder how you could be so wrong, and what can you do differently next time?

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How often have you had the experience of connecting with someone ?a friend or a potential partner ?who turns out to be an uncaring person? At first you think this is a really good person, and then down the line you discover that the person is self-centered, narcissistic, angry and uncaring. You wonder how you could be so wrong, and what can you do differently next time?

I have discovered in my 35 years of counseling that people seem to decide very early in their lives whether or not they want to care about and have compassion for others?feelings. As a result, people have different levels of the willingness to feel others?feelings. Some of us deeply feel others?pain and joy, while other people don’t. Some people can recall caring about others?pain and joy from a very young age, while other people remember being concerned mostly with their own feelings and needs.

The people who have chosen the deeper level of compassion are often the ones that become the caretakers, while the less compassionate people become the takers. Caretakers are people who have learned to take responsibility for others?feelings and well-being, while takers are people who expect others to take responsibility for their feelings and well-being and often blame others when they don’t take on this responsibility.

If you are a compassionate person who easily feels others?feelings, you might find yourself drawn to people who are in pain. Your compassionate heart naturally wants to help those people who are in pain, not only out of caring, but also because their pain is painful to you. The problem is that this person might not care about your feelings as much as you care about his or hers.

So, how do you become discerning of who has a loving, caring and compassionate heart? The first step is to focus on developing as much compassion for your own feelings as you have for others. Often, very caring people leave themselves out, caring about others far more than they care about themselves. This leaves them vulnerable to becoming the caretaker for someone who just wants someone else to take care of them, and then gets angry when you don’t do it “right.?If you develop compassion for yourself, you will start to feel much more quickly when someone is not really caring about you. If you are just focused on another’s feelings, you won’t notice what you feel, and it is your own feelings that allow you to discern caring from a lack of caring.

The next step is to understand and accept that, no matter how caring you are to others, you have no control over how caring others are with you. You can’t make someone be caring, and the more you take care of another’s feelings and well-being while ignoring your own, the less caring the other will be. The other person becomes a mirror for your lack of caring about yourself.

The more you learn to take full, 100% responsibility for your own feelings, the more another’s lack of caring will be intolerable to you. The more you are able to stay tuned into yourself and trust your own perceptions, the quicker you will discern a lack of caring in others. The more you accept your lack of control over getting others to be caring, the quicker you will let go of people who are intent on getting caring but not much concerned with giving it.

It really doesn’t take long to discern the loving heart once you have compassion for yourself, trust your perceptions, and accept your lack of control over others. People betray their intention to either give love or to get it, or to give to get, with everything they say and do. With practice, you can learn to discern the loving heart very early in a relationship. If you want to stop recreating the same relationships over and over, then develop your power of discernment.

Relationship Advice – Practical Advice For A Relationship

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By , June 16, 2020 1:55 pm

When you are ready to get into a relationship, or if you are already in a relationship, there are a few pieces of advice to consider before taking the plunge. You must know what to look for in a relationship, you must know what not to expect, you must know how to communicate better, and you should know a few techniques on how to keep things exciting and refreshing.

One great piece of relationship advice is to know what to look for in a relationship. It’s important to look for honesty from the other partner. If they are not honest, then you cannot trust them. Also, humor is important. Without humor, the relationship will be dry, but with the right amount for both of you, everything you do will have a nice touch of excitement to it. Look for the little things your partner does to show you he or she cares for you and loves you. Also look for being able to keep your friends and personal space during a relationship. If the other person is being controlling and constantly asking you where you’ve been, there is no trust, and you can feel smothered.

Don’t expect to have wild passionate sex every single week. Keep in mind either you or your partner may be tired and not feel up to it. Instead, learn about both of your needs and wants and compromise. Meet each other in the middle and have a few ways to have brief sex that both of you enjoy and will be satisfied with. Also, don’t expect your partner to look beautiful or handsome all the time. Sometimes the day to day life gets you tired and one or both of you don’t feel up to dolling yourself up. Learn to be comfortable seeing your partner in a natural or relaxed state.

Another piece of great relationship advice is to know how to communicate. Communication is a skill that must be developed and worked on over a period of months and years with you and your partner. Know what gets their attention, and more importantly, learn what they do to show you that they love you. If there is a misunderstanding, talk it out with each other, and never go to bed angry with each other. Try to sort it out before you go to sleep and your long term relationship will be much better off.

Each of these pieces of relationship advice just scratch the surface of keeping things fresh and exciting for both of you. Try them and see for yourself!

5 Ways To Keep Romance Alive ?On A Budget

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By , June 15, 2020 4:16 am

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Not everyone can afford to spend big money on romance ever time, but a bit of creativity can get the same results without breaking the bank.

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Just about everyone agrees that a nice dinner and a good bottle of wine at a quiet, intimate restaurant will set the mood for romance, but have you seen the price tag? Not everyone can afford to spend big money on romance ever time, but a bit of creativity can get the same results without breaking the bank.

While most people know about ‘his and hers?items like bathrobes and towels, there are a number of other items that can be enjoyed together as ‘couples?items. Try getting matching T-shirts with cute sayings on them. Have matching his and hers overnight bags, coffee mugs, bicycles, cell phones, cars, holiday ornaments, tennis rackets, rocking chairs and even matching carved pumpkins on Halloween.

Surprise your partner by making the ordinary a little more special. If he or she is enjoying a good book, remove the bookmark and replace it with a note that says, “I bet you’ll never guess where I’ve hidden your bookmark.?If they always turn the TV on when they come home from work, tape a note on the television that says, “Wouldn’t you rather turn me on??instead.

Making important memories is one way to be romantic on a budget. Challenge your partner to remember the most romantic kiss that you’ve seen in a movie. This will lead to some discussion about romantic kisses and should enhance the mood. As a surprise, buy that movie one day and try to recreate that special romantic kiss! Keep it in a special place and re-watch it whenever the mood strikes. If you can’t agree on the single most romantic kiss, go ahead and create a top five list. This tip works for anything. The top five most romantic songs. The top five most romantic movies. The top five most romantic books. You see the pattern. Make sure to go ahead and buy the books, songs, movies or whatever so you can use them in the future.

If you want to plan the ultimate romantic evening but funds are low or you simply don’t want to have to leave the house, shut down the electricity and imitate a power outage (it’s up to you whether or not you tell him or her!). You won’t have any distractions or heat, so it is up to both of you to keep the other warm and entertain each other.

It’s hard to find anyone who doesn’t enjoy an Oreo cookie. Take an Oreo (or generic version of one), scratch the top of the cookie until smooth and then scratch a heart and your initials into the smooth surface. You can also make your own cookies and create personal messages. Another version is to make your own cupcakes and frost them with special messages in red icing. You can also give your spouse a true treat and track down a box of his or her favorite Girl Scout cookie.

These 5 simple ideas are sure to warm up any relationship. Don’t be afraid to try simple tips and changes to “routines?to spice things up without having it cost a fortune!

Can Love Destroy

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By , June 12, 2020 7:04 am

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The title of this article is a little shocking, Isn’t it? Because no one can think of love and destruction together. But love does destroy. How? Let us examine.

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The title of this article is a little shocking, Isn’t it? Because no one can think of love and destruction together. But love does destroy. How? Let us examine.

There is a story of a prince in India. He was in great love with his wife and never wanted to be without her. One day, an enemy kingdom attacked him, but the prince did not want to go out and fight. He did not want to be away from his princess. The princess realized this and she asked the prince to go out for a minute. After sometime, a maid brought the head of princess to the prince with the dying message of the princess. ‘Let our love not destroy you. You are a prince and you must save your state from the enemies. I am giving up my life so that you can carry out your duties properly.’ Does this small story tell us anything? What lessons can we draw from this?

Many of us are extremely talented. Our talent can create a big difference to the world. We can help the world fight poverty, injustice and produce a better life for all. But some of us fall in frenzied love. This love is all encompassing. This love takes over our life. We see nothing but our sweetheart everywhere. For us, all the other work becomes insignificant. We lose our focus and are centered on our love like a mad person. This eats away the vitals of our personality.

For a person in deep and fanatic love, nothing matters other than love. All other talents take a back seat and the only driver is love. This kind of love destroys. Love that could have been very inspiring, manages to destroy. This is the irony of love.

To save yourselves from such destruction, you must always keep a level headed approach towards everything. You must sit back and reflect. Find out if you are missing larger goals? Think about time management and thought management. Discuss this out with your sweetheart. He/She will surely help you in such a situation. One who loves you, wants you to grow. So discuss this. Think, reflect and make other goals equally important once again in life. Fall in love. Enjoy the bliss of love. But let that love not destroy your personality.

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