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Are You Satisfied With Your Mate?

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By , December 11, 2019 7:28 am

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My idea of home is everything at the right place. His idea is to litter around as much as possible.

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My idea of home is everything at the right place. His idea is to litter around as much as possible. I love to read, he prefers to go to movies. I love to party, she prefers a cozy dinner for two. I love what they call junk food and she wants organic vegetarian. And so it goes. Both the partners are so different in every thing, that one wonders how they ever came together. What can one talk about such relationships?

Many of us are involved in such relationships. One of the partner is a genius and the other could barely pass through the exams. How do such relationships develop and how do they survive? Such relationships developed because both loved each other because of the differences. The differences attracted them. They found each other so different to each other that it was something exciting for them. They loved each other for these differences and so they came to enjoy life as if it was some exciting trip to unknown destinations.

What is the future of such relationships? It is difficult to say. If the love and care that brought them together still remains, they will tolerate everything else. Doesn’t a mother do everything for her toddler? That is because of love and care. So if the love remains, everything can be taken care of. If they are still very much caring for each other and get no thought of a break-up, nothing can break them. But if the love dwindles, the complaints will rise. The complaints will finish the remaining love and the relationship is doomed.

If you ask some one if he/she is satisfied with their mate, the answer will tell you about the love between them. Because even if their habits are very much similar and the love is lost, they will find imaginary complaints. Satisfaction with ones mate depends on one factor – love and care. If both care for each other and love each other, they will be satisfied despite thousand differences or similarities. Otherwise they will be dissatisfied under every circumstance.

5 Tips To Make Her Respect You

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By , December 8, 2019 9:48 am

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Respect is one of the basic human values. As it
applies to people, is defined as an attitude of
admiration or esteem for a person. This feeling
is generally a result of a person’s achievements.
While all people deserve respect, not many of
they receive this.

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Respect is one of the basic human values. As it
applies to people, is defined as an attitude of
admiration or esteem for a person. This feeling
is generally a result of a person’s achievements.
While all people deserve respect, not many of
they receive this.

Everyone wants to be respected by others but not
all of them get it. It’s important to first
define who a respectable person is before giving
respect to him.

First of all you have to keep in mind that in
order to demand respect, you will have to treat
others with equal amount of respect.

‘Respect?is just a word, but what it means and
what it distinguishes for us can make all the
difference in how we observe ourselves and others
?as well as how we relate to future
possibilities and choices.

Many successful relationships have been built
around different political or religious believes,
but it all boils down to respect. They are based
on the belief that both partners are equal, that
the power and control in the relationship are
equally share. In a relationship, respect means
to listening each other, valuing each other’s
opinions, and also understanding the other’s
emotions.

If you want to make you respectable by your
girlfriend, here are some helpful tips which may
use.

1. First of all it is very important to have self
respect. Treat yourself with respect. If she
sees that you don’t have any respect for yourself
she might consider that she doesn’t have to show
you either, because it is not important to you at
all.

2. What you give is what you take. Show respect
if you want to be respectable. Everyone wants to
be admired and appreciated. If you show your
girlfriend that she is important to you, you’ll
be easily in their good graces. Be attentive,
give compliments, and make her feel comfortable
with you and content. Simply admire the person
you are with and listen carefully when she talks.
So, she’ll love to spend time with you.

3. Relax. Women think men are mediocre because
they have a boring personality. So, when you have
a date with her relax and have fun so she will
feel great with you, because if she finds you
boring you may get dumped. If you make her feel
good she will respect you for the funny guy you
are, being the person who can make her smile even
when she is very sad.

4. Don’t lie. We all now that women don’t like to
be lied to. If she had caught you with a lie she
will definitely not have any more respect for you.
But, if she sees that you are sincere to her all
the time, she will be proud of you and will show
more and more respect for you.

5. Be confident and polite. Look into her eyes
when she talks to you and make her feel that you
are a person who can trust in. Show her that she
can talk with you about any subject or problem
she has and can count on your help. Don’t forget
to be polite, this will bring a reciprocal
respect.

When you are in a relationship you must be
treated with respect, which means your girlfriend
must act like this:

– lets you feel comfortable being yourself

– is able to admit when she is wrong

– is willing to compromise

– respects your opinions, feelings and friends

– tries to resolve conflicts by talking honesty

– accepts when you’re saying no at things you don’
t want to do

So, take a deep look at your relationship and
watch out if your girlfriend is making all this
things for you and if not you should try this
tips to make her respect you.

Blind Dates And Honesty

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By , November 8, 2015 7:44 am

Everyone hates to hear those dreaded words, the blind date, coming out of someone’s mouth. How many times has a relative or friend come up to you and insist that they know someone who would be perfect for you in every way, but you have never met them before? This is one of those things that people try to talk their way out of every chance they can. No one wants to go out on a date with someone they haven’t even seen before and, while that might sound superficial to a lot of people, it’s a bit more common than you would think.
Think about it this way: you aren’t going to purchase a car that you have never seen, heard run, or test driven, are you? Of course not, as that would be suicidal as far as your financial aspects are concerned. You have no idea what condition that car is going to be in, and that goes the same way for the blind date that someone is trying to set you up with. You just have to be honest with them and yourself, and tell them that you don’t date anyone that you haven’t met before in public.
You need to make sure that the two of you are compatible in more than just one way. Sure, they may be really nice, but if you aren’t attracted to them, then there really isn’t a way that it’s going to work out. You might end up being great friends and all, but that isn’t going to help you with a relationship of a romantic nature. If you do get forced into a blind date and you aren’t attracted to them, then you need to tell them upfront so that there isn’t any confusion later on.
Yes, it’s probably going to hurt that person’s feelings to be told that you aren’t attracted to them in a physical manner, but it’s much better to hurt their feelings early on rather than leading them on and taking a chance to really upset them. Instances like that can have some pretty dangerous consequences if you aren’t careful, and that is why it’s always a good option to just avoid blind dates altogether or do your best to be as honest as you can at the very start of the date. Just make sure that you are tactful with the way you let them down.
There are those occasions when a blind date is the perfect way of finding the one person you are meant to be with. Those moments are rare, at best, but everyone has heard the tale of someone in their family meeting someone on a blind date that ended up in 50 plus years of happiness. It may not work out that way for you every time, but you could be the next rarity in the relationship world, and that would change your life forever. Whether you like them or not, blind dates can, sometimes, at least be worth a shot.

Talk It Out

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By , November 6, 2015 2:49 am

You know your relationship is in danger when you come home and find most of your stuff sitting out on the front porch. The problem with that is that you should have known a long time before that there were problems, but you refused to accept the fact that things were going downhill. Now, every guy out there has had to spend a night or two on the sofa because of something they did, but when you find your stuff sitting on the porch, it’s usually too late for flowers or a romantic dinner to set things right again.
The thing you need to realize is that you should have been doing the flowers and dinners before you found your stuff on the front porch. Most guys think that just because they have been married for ten years or longer that they don’t have to worry about all those spur of the moment things that you used to do when you were dating. The truth is that is exactly what you should be doing, and you should make sure that it is for no particular reason as well. Doing it only on special occasions is nice, but kind of predictable.
You are going to find that if you surprise your wife from time to time with something they would expect, it will lessen the likeliness of your stuff being thrown out on the front porch. That means you won’t have to worry about sleeping on your friend’s sofa until you figure out what you are going to be doing with your life. You will also find that it will keep her on her toes trying to figure out why you are being so nice for no reason. That’s something you can use to your advantage in the next argument you get into.
The main thing you should remember is that you should never take your wife for granted. You may not understand everything that sets her off, but she is the only one that actually wanted to marry you, and because of that, you got lucky. You may think that going back to your bachelor life would be fun, but things have changed since the time when you were single and you aren’t going to find things fun after a month or so. It is much better for you to keep your wife happy than it is to be single these days.
All jokes aside, you should do everything in your power to make sure that you and your wife can talk through your arguments rather than getting into fights. Keeping the lines of communication open is extremely important to make your relationship as strong as possible, and to do that you have to talk to each other. You can’t just keep things bottled up inside you and expect your partner to understand what is wrong with you. Give your wife the benefit of the doubt and explain things in a non-defensive manner so that the two of you can talk it all out and keep your stuff from being thrown out onto the porch.

Should You Break Up

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By , November 3, 2015 9:44 pm

For most people, there comes a point in a long and serious relationship where they may consider leaving their mate. When it comes to breaking or making a relationship, there really aren’t any right or wrong choices. So whatever you pick, accept now that it is an unavoidable part of life.
If you are considering putting an end to your relationship, think about the reason why. For instance, if they cheated on you, broke a promise, or if you feel you are in love with someone else, discuss it. You may want to discuss it with a very close and reasonable friend first, but if your mate is typically calm and rational, then try to even discuss it with them. If you are concerned about the legitimacy of the issue, then spend some time thinking about it by yourself and discover how it makes you feel.
If the reason is one that you can’t readily explain, then that is definitely a reason you will want to ponder a bit. Sometimes, when you aren’t really sure why you want to leave the one you’re with, it’s a lot easier to take a day to yourself and pretend to be single. Just see how it makes you feel to think of not being with them anymore. Pretend that they aren’t involved with you and that you are free and single. You should be able to learn from this method whether you would be happier to stay with them or not.
Pay close attention to the feelings you get when you are around them and with them. You should know that if you get uncomfortable from them holding or touching you, then it may be time to call it quits. The same thing could be said if you feel a great amount of happiness from the thought of being single.
It’s hard to tell sometimes if you’re truly in love with someone, or if the two of you are just a really good pair of friends. The love for friends is just as unconditional and easily mistakable for the love you may feel for a soul mate. It’s an honest mistake for many young lovers to make, which is why a lot of young people who think they fall in love these days can still remain friends. It’s because that is what they were all along.
This doesn’t happen all the time, however, as a good deal of relationships tend to end one-sided. One person feels a lot of love and attachment for the other, but the other feels friendship. Break-ups can be resolved maturely, but most of the time they end poorly. Lots of things can be spurred on by a break-up. You can lose a few cool friends and the love and attention of any friends that are on your ex’s side, but then, you can also open yourself up to a world of possibilities. Keep in mind that there is always someone out there that can make you happy.

How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend Without Breaking Her Heart

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By , November 1, 2015 4:42 pm

Many guys find that they still love their girlfriends but are no longer in love with them. They don’t want to hurt her, but they don’t want to be with her either. Does this describe you? Here’s how to break up with your girlfriend.

First of all, you should start by preparing her a couple of weeks ahead of time. Boost her ego by telling her that she’s lucky that she’s so pretty because lots of guys would fall for her. Also, pose relationship questions that will make her think about where you two are heading. Say, “can you see us together for the long haul.” If she says yes, gently say that you can’t. Introducing these types of questions and statements into the conversation ahead of time will mentally prepare her for the break up.

But at some point, you will have to cross the line and actually tell her that you don’t want to see her any longer. This is the hard part of how to break up with your girlfriend.

The most important part is choosing the location. Don’t do it when one of you is driving because that could lead to a dangerous situation.

Is your girlfriend likely to make a scene when you break up? Is she more likely or less likely to make a scene if other people are around? Take these factors into consideration when choosing the location.

For instance, if she’s likely to cry then ask her to meet you at a busy restaurant. She’s less likely to burst into tears in front of lots of people.

But, if she’s the type to throw a glass of wine at you, you probably don’t want to be embarrassed in front of a lot of people. Maybe you should do it in private.

Your house or hers, that is the question. If you do it at her house, you can leave immediately after the break up rather than spending lots of time analyzing what went wrong. However, she may associate things in the house with the break up and since she has to live there, it may make her sad to have broken up at home.

The next question in how to break up with your girlfriend is what to say. While they are tired lines “it’s not you, it’s me” is really somewhat comforting. If you are leaving her for another lady, let her know – don’t make her find out for someone else. If you want to remain friends, suggest a cooling off period where you don’t contact each other for a month so that when you do talk, the emotions have blown over.

Finally, you have to be committed to the break up ahead of time, or else you’ll look like a fool. If you are going to let her talk you back into dating, you might as well have not broken up.

You should know that unless the two of you have been drifting apart for some time, the likelihood is that you will break her heart when you break it off. You don’t want to hurt her. But, ultimately, a relationship has to be a two way street. If you are not in love with her any longer, you owe it to her to let her find someone who can fall in love with her.

And, that is how to break up with your girlfriend.

Its Not Nice To Tease

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By , October 30, 2015 11:54 am

With rape statistics so high these days, there’s a definite need to be cautious as to whom you’re dating or even just hanging out with. There seems to be even more date rape situations than ever before, or it could be that they just started to be reported more than in years past. Now, while anyone with any common sense of decency will never agree that it’s “right” to rape women, there’s something else that needs to be taken into consideration.

There are some women that are just born teases. That doesn’t mean that they deserve to be raped, but these women do seem to be the ones that the phrase “asking for it” will follow after them. It’s very important to dress and act so that you can get across the impression you want to convey. Many women that tend to tease men give the impression that they’re going to be giving away a lot more than just their scintillating company for the night.

Those are the women that usually find themselves in some trouble that they can’t handle at some point in time. That’s why women need to understand that the way they dress and act around men can, many times, make themselves appear more like hookers than women seeking a nice guy for dating and more. Now, women certainly have the right to dress any way that they want. However, they need to be prepared to be treated according to the vibes they give off.

For instance, if you’re dressed in something that hits you just below your backside accompanied by a top that’s so low that the only things NOT showing are your nipples, you can expect to be stared at. On top of that, if you hang all over men and continue crossing your legs to show them that you’re not wearing any underpants, you can expect them to figure that you charge money. Yet, these are the very women that get insulted when the guys they’ve been laying all over all evening suddenly suggest they go somewhere a bit more private like their place, the back seat of their car or even the stall in the mens room of the club.

If you’ve been basically throwing yourself all over a guy in that way all night, it’s safe to say that he’s convinced that you’re ready to have a simple one night stand with no strings attached. Now, you may or may not realize that you’ve been coming onto this guy but he certainly does. So if one night stands aren’t what you’re looking for, you need to revamp your strategy for winning a man. You can still dress a bit sexy, but you don’t need to make yourself seem like a loose woman or you’ll get the wrong kind of attention from the men you’re attracted to.

Remember that men don’t LIKE women that are teases. They resent being all revved up and having no place to go. Keep in mind that not only is it not nice to tease, but too many times that kind of behavior can land you in more trouble than you ever thought possible.

Easing Your Family Into Your Biracial Relationship

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By , October 28, 2015 6:43 am

It may be that segregation has been left in the dust from long ago, but there are still many people that continue to live in the past and clutch their biracial objections close their hearts. If you come from one of these families and have managed to avoid having their prejudices rub off on you; that’s commendable. However, it may be difficult to explain to your backwards family that you’ve met someone of another race from yourself and that the two of you are in a relationship. Most likely, you’ve been hiding this man from your family because of how you know they’ll react. Just don’t wait until you’ve set a wedding date before breaking the news to them, though.

As soon as you realize that this is a man that you see spending a long time with, maybe forever, it’s time to start planning your strategy as to how you’ll tell the family. One thing you can do immediately is start talking about him in glowing terms to your family. Tell them all about his great qualities as well as any significant achievements he’s made in life. A great career is also a good thing to mention. Your family needs to know how well you’re treated by this guy and how happy you are with him. At first, you’ll probably want to see where the relationship is headed before creating drama with your family. Just remember, though, that it’s better to not keep something like this a secret for too long, particularly if this is a man that may become your husband.

Start out by introducing your boyfriend to more rational and tolerant family members. Maybe they can help you with introducing him to those family members that are NOT so amenable and have sealed minds when it comes to anything out of the ordinary such as biracial dating. Put together a nice dinner or gathering somewhere and invite these family members to meet your boyfriend. Tell them beforehand about him and the fact that he’s of a different race than you. Also, re-emphasize the fact that he’s wonderful. You may also want to tell them that you’ve picked them to meet him first because you know they’ll be willing to get to know him without judging the two of you. If this meeting works out, you’ll have some allies.

A lot of times, your boyfriend’s winning personality will work alone to slowly win your family over. Something you may want to be prepared for, though, is that it may be that no matter how hard both of you try or how awesome he is, that there may be some family members that will never accept him. This may be something that you’ll just have to deal with. Try to understand that ignorance abounds these days, even among your family members, and do what you can to move into your happy future. Don’t let others judge your happiness. You should be allowed to have a future with the man that’s best for you no matter what his race.

Should I Tell Him His Flys Open On A First Date

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By , October 26, 2015 1:12 am

Everyone has those embarrassing moments in life. You simply can’t get around it. You know, like those times when your date‘s fly is open and you’re not sure if you should say anything or not. This one can actually be a bit tricky when you think about it. Say it’s your first date with this guy. Do you really want to tell him something quite as personal as this when you don’t even know him all that well? Will he appreciate it if you do say something? Is it right for you to let him go around everywhere that evening on your date with his fly open?
One of the things that you should go by when trying to resolve this dilemma is what sort of guy you’re dating. If he’s laid back and has a great sense of humor, you’re probably going to be fine in telling him that his fly is open. In fact, you’ll both probably have a great laugh about it. On the other hand, if the guy’s a bit shy or something, you probably want to find a different way to let him know that he needs to zip up his fly. However, no matter what you do, he’s probably going to die of embarrassment and you may never see him again.
Another one of those first date embarrassing moments is when your date has something huge and green caught between his front teeth. Do you say something or do you just let it go and hope he notices it on his own, eventually? Again, this is going to depend on the guy’s personality. Consider if it was you in that situation. Would you want to be told by a new date? Proceed accordingly when you think about it.
Then, there’s that perfectly natural, yet perfectly humiliating event of passing gas. Men typically don’t mind doing this in front of anyone, even new women that they’re dating. In fact, some of them will even call attention to it just in case you missed it and make raucous jokes about it. Obviously, these men aren’t going to mind if you discreetly cover your nose and mouth with your hand or napkin. Suppose you’re dating a man that’s rather self-conscious about things and he erupts loudly during dinner. Do you just keep talking and pretend that you didn’t hear the minor volcanic explosion? Do you giggle a little and make some cute remark, whatever that might be? This one is where you should simply follow his lead as there’s really no graceful way to get around it.
Yes, first dates can be very exciting and fun. They can also present some rather comical and embarrassing situations. You just have to figure out what you’re going to do if any of these happen to turn up on your first date with this guy. In the end, if you have doubts as to how to handle it, go along with the way the guy wants to deal with it. That seems to be the best answer.

Dealing With A Flirty Best Friend

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By , October 23, 2015 8:57 pm

Best friends are some of the most wonderful things to have in the world. You share secrets, go places with them, and just enjoy spending time together. Yes, having a best friend can certainly make life grand! On the other hand, having a best friend that seems to feel that it’s ok to flirt with your boyfriend can be rather a pain in the ass. This is especially true when the best friend in question is pretty hot looking and doesn’t mind using her looks to gain the attention that should be yours. It’s a touchy situation, for sure.
Now, you can, of course, rectify the situation by simply dumping the best friend. That’s not out of the question because, honestly, if she’s flirting with your boyfriend, she’s kind of showing the disrespect she has for you. After all, she is treating something that’s supposed to belong to you as if he’s hers. However, if you’re sure that you want to continue this friendship, there are some other ways to handle it.
The first one is also the most direct one. Sit her down and tell her that you don’t appreciate her flirting with your boyfriend. Don’t beat around the bush, either. Tell her that you can see what she’s doing and that you consider it very disrespectful of her to do that to you. Ask her how she would feel if you were to start flirting shamelessly with her boyfriend. Be sure let her know how serious you are about her needing to stop.
Another way to get your point across is by mimicking her behavior. In short, you start flirting with her boyfriend. Show her what it feels like to have her boyfriend hit on right in front of her. She’ll more than likely not appreciate it at all and will approach you about it. That will give you the perfect opening you need to make her see how she’s making you feel.
Something else you can try is confronting her right in front of your boyfriend and anyone else that may be around. If she’s being blatant enough for you to notice the flirting, chances are good that others have noticed it as well. This behavior may have even caused others to be embarrassed about it. So they’ll totally understand why you’re calling her out on it in front of them.
None of these are totally foolproof but they’re better than doing nothing at all. More than likely, your feelings for her are going to erode after so many instances of her flirting with your boyfriend so it will be easier to cut her out of your life. Before you make that decision, though, take a close look at how your boyfriend is responding to her attention. If he’s encouraging it, then he needs to go right along with your about-to-be ex-best friend because he obviously doesn’t know how to act in a relationship any more than your friend does. Drop them both and don’t look back.

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